What is in the way????

What is in the way? I would say that most people do not know what is in the way of sucess. For me I would have to start with too much on my plate. I need to simpify my life and focus only on what is the basic goals for me and not ut forth any energy any where else. I seem take phone calls of other peoples problems... I am often the friend to call, but I dont allways wish I was. FOr some reason I torture myself with the problems of other people. I would also say that basic organizational skills are lacking. It seems like to me that anytime I have ever tried to have a set schedule someone else or something else has allways interferred with that. I ask for a basic work schedule and they push me around...poor poor pity me, but why do I let them do it to me? I was kidding about the poor poor me... even though sometimes it feels good to cry on my own shoulder..why not everyone else leans on it. I also think that my family is in the way and that I can not say that I mind at all. I love having a family and try not to put them out for my self purpose and wants. I also would have to say incredibly loud that my overthinking gets in the way alot, that and procrastination. I can sometimes over come both of those issues, but it often seems it allways returns to haunt me in the times that I need it not to the most. I sometimes think that my family gets in my way just because they can. They know that I will put my own self out and deal with their issues at hand. I will later do mine...but at a less important time...ha ha. It seems like sometimes I need someone to look out for me. I often look out for everyone but myself. I have been given some very good advice about this before and it was... If your not happy, how do you expect anyone in your life to feel like they are happy around you. So basically it all boils down to I need to prioritize...MYSELF.