Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Things most often said about me that I dont really see

I often find people telling me that I am a goody too shoe... what exactly this means I am not sure. I am not a goody too shoe and have made plenty of mistakes. I have done some things I would never do again and have done some things I would do again but would not share with everyone except my best friend. I do go to church yes, I do love jesus. I have a big heart and never intend to harm anyone else...I believe what you give out you get back in some way so I do try hard not to give out alot. I often wonder though when people share that with me what is it that they are participating in that wmakes them think I would be such a goody too shoe compared to them? I wonder if they think that because I dont share every downfall with them that I dont have any? I am often told that I am very bubbly...I dont allways see myself as this either when others are. I am not the best with body language..only because I dont think it can allways speak for what a person is thinking or feeling. I am glad that others tell me I am bubbly, but some of the times in my life I am told this there is often alot of stress going on. I often think people think this about me because I am patient at work and try not to get upset when things go wrong. It not that I am not upset. It is just I havve my own therories about how to handle it and One is .... I have learned that once a aperson becomes an adult..there is no use in putting them in their place. They know what they are doing and obviuosly didnt mind. Yes there are exceptions to this..as there is exceptions to everyone and everything. I also believe that sometimes if you give people attention for the wrong behavior your more likely to see more of that behavior. anyhow that is all I have for now on this subject may add more later.

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